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  6 Signs You May Be Dating a Psycho

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We've all got a teeny bit of psycho in us. But the line between going ga-ga for someone and becoming completely delusional about the boundaries of the relationship is a fine one.

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We've all got a teeny bit of psycho in us. But the line between going ga-ga for someone and becoming completely delusional about the boundaries of the relationship is a fine one.

 

If your newest fling's behavior is starting to give you a serious case of the heebie-jeebies and you wonder where the glowing personality went that you met on the first date, you may have hitched up with a psycho.

 

From bunny-boiling to phone-tapping, incessant emails to branding-style scratched initials in your back, there's a lot to be afraid of. Herewith, six signs your honey is half-baked.

 

Communication Overload

There's a difference between an eager beaver and a psychotic partner. An eager beaver calls you once and leaves all their phone numbers and email addresses so you can find them when you get the urge to reach out. A wacko calls all of your numbers and sends messages to all of your email addresses -- all day and every day. And the more time that passes between live interaction with a psycho, the more nutsy the notes and messages become. "Hey, it's me" morphs into "I've called 12 times...where are you?" and finally "Pick up the phone or I swear I'm gonna boil the bunny."

 

Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire

The fibs seem harmless at first; they may even be confused or couched as miscommunications. But psycho partners lie incessantly in an attempt to control you. So what starts as lies about small things, like liver also being his favorite food (so that it looks like you two are so similar you must be soul mates) escalates into elaborate fabrications about him needing your emotional support because he's just discovered that he has an identical twin brother whose cancerous liver will self-implode without a transfusion of your lover's genetically matched blood. Beware the contradictions, the overabundance of justifying details, the well-timed dramas.

 

Stalk Talk

Don't be fooled by the cliché image of a trenchcoat-clad dude running from telephone pole to telephone pole as he follows his victim home from the bar. Stalking girlfriends and boyfriends come in all shapes and sizes (and outfits). And their techniques are many: from blatantly setting up tent and bonfire on your front stoop to see what time you get home, to "coincidentally" planting themselves in public places they know you'll frequent -- your neighborhood porn shop, your synchronized swimming class, the recycling room in the basement of your building. Don't discount the idea of your phone being tapped if it seems your lover knows secrets you've shared only with friends over the phone. If you're starting to get that creepy "being watched" feeling and have actually found yourself wondering how the witness protection program works, you've probably made allies with a lunatic.

 

Scarred Out Of Your Wits?

Some guys like it when a girl draws blood from his back with her French manicured nails. And some girls, when doing the doggy, like to be spanked till their buttocks burn pink. But if the recipient of said "passionate" punishment isn't the one getting off, this kind of thing falls under the category of branding. As in, "This is my man and I've created a hickey self-portrait on his neck to show you that he's taken."

 

Mine, Mine, Mine!

We've all felt moments of jealousy in our lives. And that's probably a good thing -- a little bit of envy keeps us on our toes. But there's jealousy, and then there's jealousy of the paranoid variety. Imagine this: you can't look at anyone of the opposite sex, let alone talk to them, without your partner freaking out. And that's just with strangers (read: I know you're cheating on me with your doorman because you always say "hello"). Classic psycho jealousy behavior also pertains to, god forbid, ex-girlfriends and ex-boyfriends -- even pals and family members. In other words, to a psycho, everyone is a threat.

 

Pay attention to ME

A psycho needs constant attention, and if that need isn't met, all hell breaks loose. Does your girlfriend fall to the ground in a pretend faint so that you have to stay home and take care of her rather than hit the pub with your friends on a BNO? Does your boyfriend hold your hand or perform other PDAs (public displays of affection) only when other males are around? You see, it's all about control and having power over you and the relationship. Psychos want to know everything (snooping is classic behavior and these dating duds seem to have eyes on the backs of their heads), and many may assume that you're in a committed relationship just because you made it through a first date.

 

Caveat

Of course we jest. In real life, stalking, obsessive phone calling and other possessive behavior is not cool. And at all not funny. If you suspect you are being stalked or are otherwise being harassed by a former or current partner, don't hesitate to call or visit your local police. And if you are facing an emergency, dial 911.

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The level of romance in your life is about to go up, up, up! The sky's the limit when it comes to the amount of chemistry between you and a very special someone. Most of the explanation can be found in your brimming confidence -- people who have a strong sense of self are very attractive to others. Your creativity is also extremely appealing, so use it to convey your feelings in an unexpected (and very flattering) way. This is a period of new beginnings and exciting conversations.

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If you want it, you can have it. If you can imagine it, you can achieve it. The first step to achieving success is learning to want the right thing, then being able to visualize it. Go ahead and use your imagination.

I own this video...and I love this song.

So as it stands, i had a really bad weekend. Aside from cramming in studying of 5 chapters for my personality course and rushing my stats assignment due this morning, it looks like it gonna be a long week too.  

It all began Thursday night....and if u want to know more....i'll tell u. but right now lets do this movie thingy which i got from B.

SUPPOSEDLY if you've seen over 85 movies, you have no life. Mark the ones you've seen. There are 239 movies on this list. Copy this list mail, go to your own facebook account, paste this as a note. Then, put x's next to the movies you've seen, add them up, change the header adding your number, and click post at the bottom. Have fun!

( ) Rocky Horror Picture Show
(x) Grease
(x) Pirates of the Caribbean
(x) Pirates of the Caribbean 2: Dead Man's Chest
( ) Boondock Saints
(x) Fight Club
( ) Starsky and Hutch
(x) Neverending Story
( ) Blazing Saddles
(x) Universal Soldier
(x) Lemony Snicket: A Series Of Unfortunate Events
( x) Along Came Polly
(x) Deep Impact
( ) KingPin
(x ) Never Been Kissed
(x) Meet The Parents
( x) Meet the Fockers
( ) Eight Crazy Nights
( x) Joe Dirt
(x) KING KONG
Total so far: 14

(x) A Cinderella Story
( x) The Terminal
( x) The Lizzie McGuire Movie
( ) Passport to Paris
(x) Dumb & Dumber
( ) Dumber & Dumberer
( ) Final Destination
( ) Final Destination 2
( ) Final Destination 3
( ) Halloween
(x) The Ring
( ) The Ring 2
( ) Surviving X-MAS
(x) Flubber
Total so far: 20

(x ) Harold & Kumar Go To White Castle
(x) Practical Magic
( x) Chicago
( ) Ghost Ship
( x) From Hell
( x) Hellboy
(x ) Secret Window
(x) I Am Sam
( x) The Whole Nine Yards
( x) The Whole Ten Yards
Total so far: 29

( x) The Day After Tomorrow
( ) Child's Play
( ) Seed of Chucky
() Bride of Chucky
(x) Ten Things I Hate About You
(x ) Just Married
( ) Gothika
( ) Nightmare on Elm Street
( x) Sixteen Candles
(x) Remember the Titans
(x ) Coach Carter
(x ) The Grudge
( ) The Grudge 2
(x) The Mask
(x ) Son Of The Mask
Total so far: 38


( x) Bad Boys
(x) Bad Boys 2
( ) Joy Ride
( ) Lucky Number Seven
(x ) Ocean's Eleven
(x ) Ocean's Twelve
(x) Bourne Identity
( x) Bourne Supremecy
( ) Lone Star
( x) Bedazzled
( ) Predator I
( ) Predator II
( ) The Fog
(x) Ice Age
( x) Ice Age 2: The Meltdown
( x) Curious George
Total so far: 48

(x) Independence Day
( ) Cujo
( ) A Bronx Tale
( ) Darkness Falls
( ) Christine
(x) ET
( x) Children of the Corn
( ) My Bosses Daughter
(x) Maid in Manhattan
(x) War of the Worlds
(x) Rush Hour
( x) Rush Hour 2
Total so far: 45

( ) Best Bet
( x) How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
(x) She's All That
( x) Calendar Girls
( ) Sideways
(x) Mars Attacks
( ) Event Horizon
(x) Ever After
(x) Wizard of Oz
(x) Forrest Gump
( ) Big Trouble in Little China
(x) The Terminator
(x) The Terminator 2
(x) The Terminator 3
Total so far: 55

(x) X-Men
(x) X2
( x) X-3
(x) Spider-Man
(x) Spider-Man 2
(x ) Sky High
( ) Jeepers Creepers
( ) Jeepers Creepers 2
(x) Catch Me If You Can
(x) The Little Mermaid
(x ) Freaky Friday
(x) Reign of Fire
( x) The Skulls
(x ) Cruel Intentions
(x ) Cruel Intentions 2
( x) The Hot Chick
(x) Shrek
(x) Shrek 2
Total so far: 71

(x ) Swimfan
(x) Miracle on 34th street
( ) Old School
(x) The Notebook
(x) K-Pax
( ) Kippendorf's Tribe
(x) A Walk to Remember
( ) Ice Castles
( ) Boogeyman
( x) The 40-year-old-virgin
Total so far: 77

(x) Lord of the Rings Fellowship of the Ring
(x) Lord of the Rings The Two Towers
(x) Lord of the Rings Return Of the King
(x) Indiana Jones and the Raiders of the Lost Ark
() Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom
() Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade
Total so far: 81

(x ) Baseketball
( ) Hostel
( ) Waiting for Guffman
( x) House of 1000 Corpses
( ) Devils Rejects
(x ) Elf
( x) Highlander
(x) Mothman Prophecies
( ) American History X
( ) Three
Total so Far: 86

(x) The Jacket
(x) Kung Fu Hustle
(x) Shaolin Soccer
( ) Night Watch
(x) Monsters Inc.
(x) Titanic
(x) Monty Python and the Holy Grail
(x) Shaun Of the Dead
( ) Willard
Total so far: 93

( ) High Tension
(x ) Club Dread
(x) Hulk
( ) Dawn Of the Dead
(x) Hook
(x) Chronicle Of Narnia The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe
(x) 28 days later
( ) Orgazmo
( ) Phantasm
(x) Waterworld
Total so far: 99

(x) Kill Bill vol 1
(x) Kill Bill vol 2
(x) Mortal Kombat
( ) Wolf Creek
( x) Kingdom of Heaven
( ) the Hills Have Eyes
( ) I Spit on Your Grave aka the Day of the Woman
( ) The Last House on the Left
( ) Re-Animator
() Army of Darkness
Total so far: 103

(x) Star Wars Ep. I The Phantom Menace
(x) Star Wars Ep. II Attack of the Clones
( ) Star Wars Ep. III Revenge of the Sith
(x) Star Wars Ep. IV A New Hope
(x) Star Wars Ep. V The Empire Strikes Back
(x) Star Wars Ep. VI Return of the Jedi
( ) Ewoks Caravan Of Courage
( ) Ewoks The Battle For Endor
Total so far: 108

(x) The Matrix
(x) The Matrix Reloaded
(x) The Matrix Revolutions
(x) Animatrix
( ) Evil Dead
( ) Evil Dead 2
(x ) Team America: World Police
( ) Red Dragon
( ) Silence of the Lambs
( ) Hannibal

GRAND TOTAL: 113 !!!!

TAKE THAT IS BACK!!!!! I liketh this song, makes me feel warm and fuzzy :D

So I thought I'd update this thingy, before class.

A lot has happened. I went away for two weeks BY myself, to a beautiful and hot island in the dutch caribbean. Where i had an awesome time. I turned 23, I've worked my last shift at Rogers Video Store 337 on Dec. 31 (yes new year's eve). So now I am gainfully unemployed and its driving me crazy. What else, hmm....I'm currently fighting with OSAP again, im hoping to get this situation resolved and get the rest of my money before april which would be nice. And there are some more stuff that has happened but i will not disclose here...

I also got facebook, which is a whole new world of stuff,like livejournal but posting on ppl's walls and little itty bitty techical stuff which I'm still getting use too. So yes, a little techincal.

And since I'm not working, i've starting scouting for good volunteer sites. I got an interview with the George Hull Center for children and families on Tuesday morning. Then i'll had in my application to Truillum and other various places. I am a little excited:D

I've started writing again, but little bits of papers all over my room and in my books. I had forgotten how good it can be just to write something, lyrics or otherwise. Not getting caught up  in the daily rushes of "here".

So that's about it...and this which i stole off of B's journal....which will probably sum up what i've already said......

1: What did you do in 2006 that you’d never done before?
Move out, fly international by myself and get my G2

2: Did you keep your New Years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I didnt make a New Years resoultions and for the new year....

3: Did anyone close to you give birth?
YES!! Patty had a baby girl...Nicole!

4: Did anyone close to you die?
No

5: What places did you visit?
Buffalo, Curauco, Miami, New York

6: What would you like to have in 2007 that you lacked in 2006?
No problems with OSAP, a good job and plenty of other stuff

7: What dates from 2006 will remain etched upon your memory?
August 29th
Nov 12- My birthday dinner

7: What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Resigning from Rogers, getting into a psychology which I love, Looking out for me a bit more

8: What was your biggest failure?
Making promises i couldnt keep

9: Did you suffer illness or injury?
I fell in the bathtub while i was taking a shower and bruised my behind....which is still a little sore

10: What was the best thing you bought?
My plane ticket

11: Whose behaviour merited celebration?
My friends, whom all supported me in their own ways when I needed them.

12: Whose behaviour made you appalled and depressed?
in 2006? No one

13: Where did most of your money go?
Bills and school

14: What did you get really, really, really excited about?
People, music contest and psychology

15: What song/album will always remind you of 2006?
I don't have one song or album. There's a collection of songs.

16: Compared to this time last year, are you...

1. happier or sadder? Happier.
2. thinner or fatter? curvy!!! and I like it
3. richer or poorer? Poorer in money, richer in friends. 

17: What do you wish you’d done more of?
see the people i care about most

18: What do you wish you’d done less of?
working all the time

19: How will you be spending Christmas?
with my family and my new nefphew Kaliel

20: Who did you spend the most time on the phone with?
seriously? jon

21: Were you in love in 2006?
I'd be lying if I said I weren't.

22: How many one night stands in this last year?
None.

23: What was your favourite TV program?
House

24: Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
Like B said....Hate is a very strong word for an emotion that is spent on a wasted individual. and I say, it is a waste of time and energy.

25: What was the best book(s) you read?
I can't say which were the best, there are so many different styles and genres, and none can compare to the other.

26: What was your greatest musical discovery?
hm....

27: What did you want and get?
I got my blackberry!

28 What did you want and not get?
Plenty of things

29 What were your favourite films of this year?
I have plenty...i worked in a video store come on!!

30: What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
On my bday i went out with my family to a great restaurant with a band, then a week or so later, dinner with jon and jubei!!

31: What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
paying off debt, and no osap

32: How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2006?
Casual, preppy and ....sexy??? :P

33: What kept you sane?
my friends, work...  even then it doesn't always work.

34: Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
No one really, I don't pay attention to celebrities unless they are Christian Bale :P

35: What political issue stirred you the most?
U don't want me to get started....

36: Who did you miss?
A person

37: Who was the best new person you met?
Kevin

38: What was the biggest surprise in 2006?
My own determination and strength...

39: Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2006...
You are the only one responsible for your own happiness and achievements.

You are The Moon

Hope, expectation, Bright promises.

The Moon is a card of magic and mystery - when prominent you know that nothing is as it seems, particularly when it concerns relationships. All logic is thrown out the window.

The Moon is all about visions and illusions, madness, genius and poetry. This is a card that has to do with sleep, and so with both dreams and nightmares. It is a scary card in that it warns that there might be hidden enemies, tricks and falsehoods. But it should also be remembered that this is a card of great creativity, of powerful magic, primal feelings and intuition. You may be going through a time of emotional and mental trial; if you have any past mental problems, you must be vigilant in taking your medication but avoid drugs or alcohol, as abuse of either will cause them irreparable damage. This time however, can also result in great creativity, psychic powers, visions and insight. You can and should trust your intuition.

What Tarot Card are You?
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Yes i am rambling, its on my mind and frankly i need to ramble it somewhere. 


What is it about sexual selection that makes it so interesting? I just came back from my Nat sci class and We just watched the pilot epi for "Sex and the City." Which is approiate since we are talking about mating and picking specific mates. 

Is it possible for women to be like men and have sex with out the emotional, messy string attachment? possibly. I assume it would depend on your past experinces in relationships with the oppoiste or same sex.

As far i as know personally, many people like who they like. It cannot be helped. No matter what. Sometimes it not desireable for many people (aka friends) but right then in "pining" for that certian person will possibly make or break you.  You then classify ur self on a certain level, decided whether or not a person is within your "league" or "market value" (see psych is fun). It natural to do so, but it aslo varies. What then? Start all over again. It seems like an endless cycle

So what about human mating strategies...(i'm getting this from the lecture), you know things that you do to make yourself an impossible fool to try and impress someone (this doesn't apply to everyone...captian waffles).  Playing hard to get, online dating. For example, ladies there is a site you can go to www. wealthymen.com which is exteremly funny and sugardaddy.com for finding wealthy men or wealty men wanting to find attractive women.

Down to the nitty gritty, it could just about sex. The natural need to reproduce and get off.  Which is probably why so many songs titled "I don't need a man", "i Belong to Me," granted are pop songs but all say something. 

So what do men want from a sociobiology view: succussful reproduction, faithfulness, physically attractive and healty for bearing offspring. For women: reprocutive men, physcially attractive, and many resources (income, education etc.)...damn. seems so techinal.


So sex and the city intresting show, kind of makes you think just a little of what your currently doing for personal relationships. If having relationships with out emotional string is benefical if so, are you able to do it?

On the other hand of all this stuff, if and when you fall in love, its a whole new experience, some good and some bad. Sometimes you choose and most of the time you don't. 

So why is it that women find men so fustrating? and men find women fustrating? 

So I'm feeling a little odd, possibly because i didn't sleep well and well weird dreams. And conflicted male issues. Which gets more complicated by the minute and it really shouldn't. What i should do is cut my losses, eat a tub of mint chocolate chip ice cream, watch an "Affair to Remember" or "the Notebook" and be done with it. *sigh*

Sometimes i realize, the thing u want most is the thing you cannot have. And what your give in return is not may not be what u want but is the best thing that can happen to you. But this hasn't happen to me as yet...i think.

And in other news....BONNNNNNNDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!

ok now i go and get coffee.

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From not so socially retarded journal I thought it was a funny title. If you’ve watched grey’s life is pretty much similar to that. I know its completely delusion to think such a think but the phrase “ they are socially retarded 17 year olds in high school running around with scaples” kinda relates to something. Why am I writing this? I do have a purpose. Which I will not express at this time, because like many that I know, I tend to over think and beat myself up on the what if’s should have’s and could’ve. Why? Because it’s the most female thing to do, and I generalize because I’m part of this female population. I’m writing this in my natural sci class “sexual selection” from a biology perspective….why we have sex? Interesting eh? Mating asexually, heterosexually etc. etc…I do hope I’m not going the Bridget Jones route…in the entry. But I need to rant or ramble about things or nothing, don’t mind me. I’m trying to work some things out in my mind. So I’m thinking…. A lot. Of what will happen and what won’t. Like I said I’m over- thinking. I am going to try to save money for my trip next summer. Which is going to be tight…so I am wondering if it’ll happen. Maybe I’ll go somewhere different this time, Spain or Italy, France…somewhere. Hmm…lion cubs…killed by lion who isn’t the father and take over pride…geez. Apollo butterfly are lucky to get once…the anaconda…one lucky lady…blue- footed booby birds no strings attached. Anyway, the discussion in class… -What do men look for? In women or other men - what do females look for? In men or other women - what are mating strategies of the sexes? - other issues (e.g. how do the above change with age?) Answer these questions and I’ll give u a prize…maybe. Now people are deliberating conversing and thinking, chuckling here and there….it’s quite intense. Reporting from the side-lines right in the thick of it…do im going a little overboard, I blame the hot chocolate I had with whipped crème. Yum. Since my class is almost over in about 30mins I think I might walk square one a bit, I need to do some pre-shopping. If you’ve haven’t notice from this entry which is all over the place, that is essential how my mind is working this very minute. Nice eh? Alrighty, time to go…this discussion is getting interesting now :P

It's amazing how many people forget a birthday, some friends and some family. Not to worry Saturday started off great, didnt work, i got godvia chocolates from my brother and then....i fell in the shower, and severly bruised my behind which now is the the colour of red, outlined in dark purple and no so sore to sit on. But we went out for dinner to Louisania in Brampton, It's an awesome restaurant with a live band Friday and Saturdays i like...a lot.:D

Happy b-day to me!!!

Chaos peeps...don't worry i forgive you

Bon tardi dushi! ('s)

I thought i would post something since i have lots of time before my next class and not willing to read any of the two books that cost me close to $300 right now...so here i am. i probably should

I realized that i;ve missed quite a lot when you dont read the LJ"s for a while. SO what's new with me?

My trip was awesome!!!! I had 16 days of extreme hot weather and sun. Curacao is so beautiful, i think i'll go back next summer once i save enough money. I miss it a lot and my family very much.  I'm not quite the same person i was before i left for my trip, but its a good thing. I am in a much better mood and much more postive about this year. I feel light and happy just for being me. 

As for school, this year will be my last year (hopefully)...well that's what i am aiming for. My schedule seems to be working out so i have tuesday and thursdays off, but work seems to schedule me for any avaiable moment...so i have to books some days off just to make sure that im not killing myself working. On that topic of work, i am looking for another job, and i mean seriously looking...

But other than that im good and glowing. 

Now i should probably read...stats...for the love me...i hope im not an imposter

Danke. :D